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It seems to me that she was just trying to get you to abase yourself. The only things she seemed happy to see from you was the negative. And that's a sure sign of major issues.
In my experience the problem with people like that is they feel badly about themselves (usually lacking hope) and a mechanism they use for managing their own self-hate is to bring down others to a level they feel comfortable dealing with. "If I'm a messed up bitch, then every other girl out there must be a messed up bitch." And they're going to be displeased until you bring yourself down to at least their (perceived) level of degredation (if not lower). Especially if it seems you're obviously trying to improve yourself or seem genuinely self-confident.
Anyway... Rise above. None of us are perfect, and some "flaws" are simply a matter of perception. And while it's good to be able to spot things we'd like to improve about ourselves, it isn't healthy to wallow in our imperfections.
I'm sure you know at least some of this yourself, if not all of it. I hope that I don't come across as preachy. It's simply meant as food for thought and encouragement. Be well.
And yeah, Meow-Girl is a pretty accurate description haha XD. I got really tired of that lol.
But yes, I do agree with what you have to say. A lot of that is what I thought as well which is why I don't have much to say now lol.